I was about to say that there's nothing I dislike more than a cheating man...but that would be a lie. There's nothing I dislike (read: utterly loathe) more than a cheating man who carries himself in the community as a "man of God".
Last night while riding a wave of emotion, I posted to my Facebook "Why is it that the heart has so much control over the mind, yet the mind has no control over the heart?" Minutes later, I received a private message from one of my "friends" which read: "You could have control over my mind, heart, soul, and body any day. LMAO, but very serious."
When the message originally came thru on my Blackberry, I just chuckled to myself and rolled back over to read. But today I decided to go to this man's page because I *thought* I remembered him being married (and always posting inspirational quotes and scriptures on FB). Needless to say, both were confirmed. Pictures of him in church with his choir, and the status of "married". See, I just can't get with that. I'd never want it done to me and I have learned (good God, I've LEARNED) that Karma is a bitch...with a gun. She never forgets, takes no prisoners, and could give a damn about your feelilngs.
Whenever a married man hits on me - knowing that I am fully aware of his married status - it pisses me off like no one's business. Why get married if you're just going to be a cheating, lying piece of shit? Why risk your life and your family over some skeezoid? And I'm sorry, this is just my opinion, if you date a married man KNOWING he's taken before anything begins, then you are, to me, a skeezoid. However, you get a pass if he's at least separated...divorces can be expensive, from what I've heard.
But hey, that's just my 2 cents. Now I just pray to God that I don't end up with a loser like that!
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